Tuesday, August 21, 2012

generation X thought ‘family is foremost'

If generation X thought ‘family is foremost’, for generation Y, are parents a pest?
 
People all over the world look up to India’s culture, especially because of our strong family bonds, and it’s a sad sight when tiny tiffs lead one to an impulsive decision of walking out of home. Opines Dr. Sanjay Chugh, “Living on your own makes you learn new things about life and your own self. It makes you more independent, self-reliant and responsible, if the freedom is rightly used. All these are desirable qualities, that’s why, if there is opportunity along with resources, rarely would anyone like to ignore it.” But the days ahead might not turn out to be all rosy. “Separating is an important decision and so, the family’s mental preparedness is crucial. If both the parents and the child are mentally and emotionally ready, then the whole shift could be far more peaceful and stress free. If not, the chances of emotional breakdowns are high”, said Sanjay.

To avoid reaching a crossroad of heartaches, both parents and children need to realise that where there’s love and understanding, a little adjustment can definitely be accommodated.